A bidet apparatus for use with a typical toilet is shown. The bidet apparatus comprises a height-adjustable sub-seat for housing movable liquid and air delivery systems. The air and liquid supplies may be located next to or remotely from the toilet. Controls are fully adjustable for control of on/off, pressure, sub-seat location of liquid and air delivery mechanisms, and temperature and pressure of liquids. Air and liquid delivery systems move out of the way of defecation, urination and the like. A hand-held controller on a flexible stalk provides finger tip control of functions.